You never had any problems talking to the women that attract your attention? Then this blogpost isn’t meant for you! In this blog, I want to let you show you three different aspects of how to start talking to a woman. Not just any woman, but thé woman you want to get to know better.
Change your mindset
Many men seem to think that they will be rejected at all times when they start a conversation with a woman. This attitude unintentionally shines through in your appearance. Women have an extra sense to detect this kind of thoughts and this will indirectly lead to rejection.
Try to think of this conversation as a positive thing for a woman. She might be flattered if you give compliments and many women enjoy the attention of a gentleman.
Like I said: women are flattered when a gentleman gives them attention. So all you have to do is be that gentleman. Don’t only act like one, but make the woman of your dreams feel like you know what you want in your life, including her. If you trust yourself, she might do the same thing. Self-confident men are believable and have an amazing credibility. Make her believe that you are straight forward and trust-worthy. And all of this starts with believing in yourself, rather than preparing a couple of one-liners to start the conversation.
Politeness is known as a characteristic of emotional intelligence. It is the number one quality of a man that is true and worth talking to. Rejecting a polite man would make her feel guilty, as if she is the one to blame.
Don’t ever think less of yourself! Start with convincing yourself that you are worthwhile and I am sure you can convince her of the same thing. Learning how to talk to women starts with yourself. Most women are sociable and like to have a chat. Don’t be shy and start a random conversation with a random woman, at first without the intention of making a move. Take it step by step and in the end, nothing will hold you back to start romancing your woman.