There are many (many!) reasons why someone could have blocked you from their Facebook/WhatsApp/Instagram/…
In this post, I’ll give you some possible causes why someone could do that to you.
- You invest too much of your time
In the beginning of a new relationship, everything is fun, fresh and exciting. Or at least, that’s how it should be. You might feel like you want to hear from her every single moment of the day. And night. And every second you have some spare time. For you, it feels like something you need and it might seem very innocent because you do it because you feel good about this person. BUT after a while (and that while is shorter than you think!) that person will start to get annoyed by your ‘I want to hear from you/be with you 24/7’. It shows that person that you’re not a catch anymore. It shows them they are in charge and that you would do anything to get their attention. Starting a relationship doesn’t work like that! Starting a relationship means efforts from both sides! Give the other person the time to start thinking “What would X be doing right now? I haven’t heard from him in a while…”
What you can do? Send one text in the morning saying for example: “Today, I’m going for a mountain bike trip with my friends. Won’t have my phone with me, but I’ll send you tonight. Don’t hesitate to send me today, I’ll read it later!” Make her long for your text later that night. This technique works in several ways: 1) You tell her you don’t have time for her right away 2) She’s important enough to let her know what you’re up to 3) She’ll start to romanticize what you’re doing and that will only make you look better in her thoughts.
When you are texting/chatting with someone and it has been going on for a while, but you never really got out of that digital friend zone, there is a possibility that she has been chatting with someone else to. Maybe several people. Maybe she found someone who she had a better click with. Because she is a nice person, she might have blocked you from her socials because she didn’t want to hurt you. I know, honesty is always the better option. But hey, I’ve met a lot of women who do this because they hate the confrontation.
- Your standards were too low
When you’re in the dating scene for quite a long time, there will be a moment that you’ll settle for less than you would have at the very beginning. Maybe you’ll do or date any woman that is way down your standards because you think you will never find a decent match. You just take someone because anything is better than being alone. But never settle for less than what you’re worth. Never settle for someone who takes advantage of you! If you get in a situation where someone is unfriendly, impolite or even abusive, stand up for yourself. Don’t lower your self-esteem! Show where your limits are and what they will have to respect if they want to be with you. Of course you can have great dates with people who might not be the one, but are still fun to hang around with. That’s fine and you can enjoy that time until you meet your one and only. But never –ever think you are not worth true love. Because that thought might cause people to block you from their lives.
- You were too emotional/too desperate
You have no idea how many genuinely good people I know who have the worst love life. They are people who always want to do good for others. They don’t realize that that behavior is exactly what obstructs their daily dating life. Showing how good you are and what kind of a gentle person you are, will have the opposite effect! For a man, this is hateful – an absolute no-go. Don’t show how sensitive you are at the beginning of the relationship, how hard that might seem. Women want to think you can protect them, they don’t want to feel like they’re babysitting their younger brother. And again, this often results in a certain neediness that you want to avoid at all times! It will scare her off! The laws of attraction are complicated, but not inscrutable. Don’t overdo it, just show that you are a nice guy with some backbone and you’ll be fine. Don’t be too clingy, because she will block you from her social media and even out of her life!